Your Divorce Advisor : A Lawyer and a Psychologist GuideYou Through the Legal and Emotional Landscape of Divorce

Book Description

A lawyer and a psychologist offer a groundbreaking divorce strategy that protects both your finances and your family.

From your first thought of divorce through the final paperwork, Your Divorce Advisor takes you step by step toward a divorce that dissolves the marriage but not your dignity, your sense of family, or your financial security. Whether you hire a lawyer or a mediator, or do it yourself, this practical, direct, and empowering guide offers you the wise counsel you need for both the legal and the emotional processes of ending your marriage.

Your Divorce Advisor shows you how to:

Keep a healthy perspective that leads to a successful legal strategy and recognize when emotions threaten your case

Protect your assets without destroying your family

Offering:

Detailed coverage of all your legal options and guidance through every legal step, including anticipating the emotional repercussions of your decisions

More information on custody than any other divorce book, including age-appropriate custody schedules

A sample divorce agreement explained one paragraph at a time

Your Divorce Advisor helps you set yourself and your

family on a positive course toward a new life.

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This is the first book to focus on the concerns, fears, and futures of everyone involved in a divorce. With vital legal information and sound psychological advice, it takes readers chronologically through the divorce process and explains how to manage every step without losing emotional control, traumatizing young children, or jeopardizing the goal of reaching an agreement that will stand the test of time. Written by a matrimonial attorney and a clinical psychologist who specializes in family counseling, and featuring sidebars and highlighted sections for easy reference, Your Divorce Advisor covers all the legal and psychological aspects of divorce, including: -- Understanding your legal options and starting the legal process -- Preparing your family for what's ahead -- Negotiating with your spouse without hurting yourself or your children -- Preparing for a trial -- Dealing with the inevitable emotional conflicts among family members Divorce is a complex, stressful, and life-changing experience for both adults and children. Your Divorce Advisor will reduce the anger and pain 1.4 million American families face each year and set them on a path to a positive future.

Customer Reviews:

Practical divorce advice.......2007-04-17

Interesting book coming from both the perspective of the divorce lawyer and a psychologist. Some good, solid advice here. While going through a divorce you should gather as much information as possible and know how to protect yourself both emotionally and financially.

Seven Secrets to a Successful Divorce

Important book, along with..........2006-01-04

Divorce is one of the most grueling experiences anyone can go through, and this book is a great guide for easing the challenges. The book is packed with information on the legal and emotional issues that are likely to arise -- and how to deal with them. The topics span the board, from making the initial decision, to preparing for trial, to how to talk with the kids about it all.

THe authors have a section on negotiating with your spouse, and I think that that is essential. They mention the work of Harvard's Roger Fisher, who just published a new book that you don't want to miss if you're dealing with divorce. The book is 'Beyond Reason: Using Emotions as you Negotiate.' (The chapters on autonomy and appreciation struck a chord with me and offered great advice.)

Very Informative, but deceptively biased.......2005-07-03

After reading many, many studies on the subject of divorce, support and custody, and also personally being a single father for 13 years with sole custody of 3 children and also being a non-custodial parent of one younger child I feel I can comment objectively on this book.

First off, it is clearly very well written, covers almost all aspects of its subject and uniquely combines views from an emotional point of view as well as legal point of view. It also strives to be unbiased and provide clear representation of both parents. I do recommend this book but do so with one caveat (hence my rating of 3 stars rather than 5).

The book is riddled with hidden biases in favor of Mom rather than Dad and the reader should be cognizant of that. Also, it is not clear that all aspects of studies are clearly represented. i.e., both sides. The tricky thing is that both sides are mentioned but even when there is a preponderance of studies favoring one side, it seems the authors may lean towards the other side. A fairer presentation of studies supporting both sides would be really beneficial (particularly on child custody, visitation, overnights, bonding, etc.). Many of the studies are represented in summary form and as such remove a lot of important context.

A good example of a hidden bias:

"The Paradox requires that parents take into careful consideration how well their children are able to tolerate separation from their mother, the child's temperament, and the strength of the father-child bond prior to divorce, and weigh all this against the likelihood of the father staying in the child's life...." Page 203 - determining custody arrangements.

This seems like a very objective statement but upon closer examination it is clear that the authors are concerned with whether the child(ren) can tolerate separation from mom but never question whether or not the child(ren) can handle the separation from dad or what that impact might be. In addition, it questions the father-child bond but never suggestions that the mother-child bond should be evaluated as well in such a determination. The phrase ends with us weighing all of this against whether or not it is likely that dad will stay in the picture - again, what about mom. Studies are increasingly showing that even when mom has full custody of her children she can be less than a model parent for a variety of reasons.

Here's another:

"The amount of time between father and child is important because it facilitates a closer parent child relationship. But time does not automatically equal closeness. The quality of time spent and the level of involvement .... are ... more important." Also Page 203 - determining custody arrangements.

Again - sounds objective enough but actually why is this represented only in terms of dad. Isn't this statement true for moms as well? Phrased as written there is an assumption that mother time does equal closeness and that it is automatically quality otherwise why point this out only for fathers during a discussion on custody which should be gender neutral. If the term was written with parent in place of father then it would be truly objective. As written it supports the notion that moms are custodial parents and dads are visitors - and not to worry about the amount of time dads spend - but worry about the quality of time they spend. So to be fair, don't worry about the time mom spends with the children, just the quality of time she spends - thereby freeing up large amounts of time for dad and children.

These are only 2 examples but please read this book with caution, such biases are sprinkled all through out the book (perhaps because the authors are both moms) and amongst a backdrop of authority, general objectivity and mastery of the subject matter which makes them all the more dangerous.

Extensive Information.......2005-04-23

This book is filled with extensive information. With over 60% of the population getting divorced, this subject should no longer be taboo.
Barbara Donahue, Author of "The Anti-Rules, Now That
You've Got Him, How Do You Get Rid Of Him"

The DEFINITIVE Divorce Guidebook.......2005-04-04

"Your Marriage Advisor: A Lawyer and Psychologist Guide You Through the Emotional Landscape of Divorce" by Diane Mercer and Marsha Klein Pruitt is arguably the most respectable and comprehensive guidebook on Divorce out there in the market place. The co-authored divorce guide, written by a divorce mediator and a research scientist in child study, takes you on an informative and rational ride through the entire divorce process, both the legal and psychological aspects of it. Imbued with positive energy, the authors breathed a much needed breeze of fresh air in an area where bickering and revenge is rife, highlighting that "the best strategy is to take care of yourself and your family, especially your children...this is truly your mantra".

Complete with case studies and extensive discussion from the A-Z of all that you need to know on the divorce procedure/psyche, the book is well-balanced where the authors weighed the pros and cons of oft-repeated tactics, not least stressing ad nauseam that retaliation and lying to get your way as non-viable options. It is one of those rare self-help books where the humanity and sterling character of the authors shined through as readers are constantly reminded how divorce is a no-win scenario to all and how one should best move on from the unpalatable situation in one piece. This book is a gem amidst the universe of divorce guides advocating revenge, male/female bashing and dirty tricks. Equipped with knowledge from this book, readers could save their sanity and their children's, not least money on oftentimes deficient advice from attorneys who have their own agendas to meet. This book is good place to start when confronted by the "D" word and is placed right on top of the priority must-read list if you have just time for one.

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This report analyzes the issue of employment from the perspective of people, keeping with the tradition of the centre's previous reports. This Report has been analtically criticized under the view of globalisation and economic growth in the degrading world economy. South Asia has been neither
adequate nor equitable enough to reduce the region's huge backlog of about half a billion people in poverty due to inadequate policy attention to these issues. This Report presents an in-depth explication of the policy frameworks that should be accountable for poverty, illiteracy, rights practiced
by women and children and accumalation of food. It reveals the exposed identity of the government of South East Asia that should explicate the strategic information that is revealed by this report.

Customer Reviews:

Best How-to book on dealing with restaurants.......1999-04-26

For anyone who ever feels a little insecure in restaurants, this book tells you how to get the best treatment, how to order, foriegn menu terms translated, behind the scenes stuff and special sections for business dinners, prom nights, anniversaries and more. Really helpful.

Everything you ever needed to know...and didn't know to ask........1998-10-27

Wow! Everything you ever wanted to know about dining out - a simple way to get the edge on dining out with style.

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101 Bug Jokes
Lisa Eisenberg , and Katy Hall
Manufacturer: Scholastic Paperbacks
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback

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ASIN: 0590332473

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101 Bug Jokes

Manufacturer: Scholastic Inc
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback
ASIN: 0590998188

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Get ready for a laugh invasion with this un-bee-lieveable swarm of bug jokes!

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101 Bug Jokes
Lisa & Hall, Katy, Illustrated By Don O Eisenberg
Manufacturer: Scholastic Book Services
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Binding: Paperback
ASIN: B000NU2TZG

Bah Hum Bug: 101 Reasons to Hate the Holidays: Bah Hum Bug: 101 Reasons to Hate the Holidays

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...and a very funny bah, humbug to you and yours!

Bah Hum Bug: 101 Reasons to Hate the Holidays: Bah Hum Bug: 101 Reasons to Hate the Holidays
Ron Barrett
Manufacturer: Pocket
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback
ASIN: 0671796003

Customer Reviews:

...and a very funny bah, humbug to you and yours!.......2004-09-04

The very first reason listed in this funny book is, 'The shopping day countdown now begins in July', so maybe it's appropriate that I'm doing this review in early September. You'll certainly identify with many of these Hate the Holiday Season reasons, like:
Christmas stockings for pets.
One tiny sheet of wrapping paper around a giant cardboard tube.
The dog has mounted the turkey.
The children are bored with their toys by 7:30 AM.
Annual Christmas "family update" letters.
and possibly depending on your inclination the remaining ninety-five reasons, too!

This colorful, square hundred-page book with pleasant illustrations by Ron Barrett is just the thing to store with your decorations and bring out each festive season to be enjoyed by all the Bah! Humbug folk you know!

3 Scholastic Children Joke Books: 101 WACKY STATE JOKES and 101 PET JOKES and 101 BUG JOKES

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3 Scholastic Children Joke Books: 101 WACKY STATE JOKES and 101 PET JOKES and 101 BUG JOKES
Melvin, and Hirsch, Phil, and Eisenberg, Lisa, and Hall, Katy Berger
Manufacturer: Scholastic
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Mass Market Paperback
ASIN: B000RJ2020

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The Best of Hank Williams Jr. (Strum It Guitar)
Jr., Hank Williams
Manufacturer: Hal Leonard Corporation
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback
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Songs of Hank Williams, Jr.

Hank Williams Complete

ASIN: 063401305X

Product Description

Strum the chords and sing along with 24 favorites from Hank Williams Jr.! All of the songs are shown in their original keys complete with chords, strum patterns, melody and lyrics. Includes these country/rock classics: All My Rowdy Friends Are Coming Over Tonight Attitude Adjustment Born to Boogie The Conversation A Country Boy Can Survive Dixie on My Mind Family Tradition Gonna Go Huntin' Tonight Heaven Can't Be Found Honky Tonkin' I'm for Love If the South Woulda Won Man of Steel Old Habits Texas Women There's a Tear in My Beer This Ain't Dallas Whiskey Bent and Hell Bound Young Country and more! Also includes a chapter on how to use this book. A Country Boy Can Survive Ain't Misbehavin' All My Rowdy Friends (Have Settled Down) All My Rowdy Friends Are Coming Over Tonight Attitude Adjustment Born To Boogie Country State Of Mind Dixie On My Mind Family Tradition Gonna Go Huntin' Tonight Heaven Can't Be Found Honky Tonkin' I Like To Have Women I've Never Had I'm For Love If The South Woulda Won Man Of Steel Mind Your Own Business Old Habits Texas Women The Conversation There's A Tear In My Beer This Ain't Dallas Whiskey Bent And Hell Bound Young Country

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Best Of Hank Williams Jr. 371

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Binding: Sheet music
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Best of Early Years
Hank Jr. Cdpolp 520286 Williams
Manufacturer: POLYGRAM SPECIAL PRODUCTS
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Binding: Audio CD

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Discipleship : The Best Writings from the Most Experienced Disciple Makers

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Discipleship : The Best Writings from the Most Experienced Disciple Makers
Billie, Jr.; Shell, William A. (editor) Hanks
Manufacturer: Zondervan
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback
ASIN: B000OT4RRY

Book Description

The hall of fame concept, once limited primarily to sports, is growing rapidly as more groups, organizations and associations are building shrines to honor their past, highlight their heroes and display their artifacts and memorabilia. It is estimated that there are at least 500 physical halls of fame throughout the world, a vast majority of them located in the United States. Whatever the actual number, this work documents more than 450 of them in more than 45 states and 15 countries.

In addition to the halls of fame that most readers would expect to find, such as the National Baseball Hall of Fame, Rock and Roll Hall of Fame and the World Golf Hall of Fame, this work includes many more obscure halls of fame, such as the American Furniture Hall of Fame, Burlesque Hall of Fame, Cartoon Hall of Fame, Casino Legends Hall of Fame, Chicago Gay and Lesbian Hall of Fame, Crayola Hall of Fame, Quackery Hall of Fame, and the World Kite Museum and Hall of Fame. The entries provide contact information, including the hall's address and telephone number, and in most instances, its fax number, website and email address, and hours of operation. The entries also alert readers to admission charges and provide a brief history of the hall and a list of notable inductees.

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MTV's Road Rules Road Trips

I loved it

A great insight into the Road Rulers

Road trips/ great reading/ must have if you like road rules

A wonderful insight into what goes on behind Road Rules

Mtvs Road Rules Road Trips
Genevieve Field
Manufacturer: MTV
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback

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ASIN: 0671003747

Customer Reviews:

MTV's Road Rules Road Trips.......2000-07-08

I am a big RR and RW fan. This book had a lot of really interesting information that you wouldn't get by just watching the show. I liked getting each person's reaction to situations. I would have liked more reaction to Mark's skydive that went wrong. All in all - a very good read for fans interested in the series.

I loved it.......2000-05-09

I applaud the writer of the book for only writing about the first two seasons. They were the hands down winners for best seasons ever. It was interesting to find out everything that I didn't see on the show. The cast was also very interesting.

A great insight into the Road Rulers.......1999-11-18

I haven't seen Road Rules but I was curious about the series. The book is excellent and provides much detail into each mission and the performers. This book is much better than Road Rules Passport Abroad and Road Rules Journals (which assumes that the reader has seen Road Rules).

Road trips/ great reading/ must have if you like road rules.......1998-01-17

Colorful and easy to read. Nice acompniment to the show. Easy to follow each misson. Cool extras, including - the radio station list and things to see and do in each state visited.

A wonderful insight into what goes on behind Road Rules.......1997-12-31

Road Rules, Road Trips gives a wonderful insight in what goes behind the first two seasons of Road Rules. It allows to not only see the process behind the missions and other aspects of the show but it allows you to get to know the chracthers behind each season in an entirely different light. While I enjoyed the television series this book showed it to me in a wonderful new light. A great read for those who want to know more about Road Rules and the people who make it. :)

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MTV's Road Rules : Road Trips
MTV Editorial Staff
Manufacturer: Pocket Books
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback
ASIN: B000HMRGEY

Book Description

Prepare to pass the OCP DBA Fundamentals I exam using this Oracle Press study guide. You’ll get complete coverage of all exam topics followed by practice questions and chapter summaries. The CD-ROM contains hundreds of practice exam questions in an adaptive format.

Customer Reviews:

Mildly bad!!!!.......2006-04-30

I read this book cover to cover..twice!!! The authors did a terrible job explaining the Architectural Components in depth. For any novice or beginner, how would you expect to get a grasp on storage structures(tablespaces,indexes,blocks) if you're getting a half ass instruction on what the main key components are? Their explaination of the buffer cache was no more that 10 lines of text. Nothing mentioned about the different structures within that cache. And the same goes for the other components.

And as the other reviewer indicated, its terribly organized.The index in the book is a total joke.

I think this is a great book for beginners who want to have a "general" understanding of Oracle,but if you want to conceptually understand the material and not blow $125, don't purchase this book.
Get Sybex. Its does exactly opposite of what this book does. It Covers just about everthing you need to understand as a junior dba and test taker.

Average book for OCP Fundamentals II.......2005-11-29

This book does not cover all the details for Fundamentals II. It is a good source for reference. The CD accompanied with the book has wrong answers for the questions. You may need to refer additional book(s), may be sybex one along with this one.

Decent OCP book.......2004-06-11

I used this book to prepare for my Exam 1z0-031 but not as main reference. I used it to supplement the Sybex Study guide. It has some errors but I would say it is a decent book to use as preparation tool. I liked the practice exam questions. I did not have to buy any sotware for my practice exam questions. Those already in this book helped me.
I give 3 stars and I will definitely recommend this book as supplement to the Sybex study guide if you are preparing for OCP exam Exam 1z0-031.

Oracle should rewrite this book.......2004-05-01

I used this Oracle Press book, the Sybex book, and the Self Test Software prep questions to pass the Oracle Fundamentals I exam.

This book has received justifiable bad press. I bought it anyway, as I did not want to risk missing any material that might be presented in the "official" Oracle exam guide. I'm sure you'll buy it for the same reason.

The Oracle Press book was difficult to read. The issues go beyond spelling errors and the many "Oracle 8I" references that should say "Oracle 9i". I can correct these errors myself. This book has serious editing issues that will impact your ability to understand the concepts presented. The author knows his stuff but the editor really dropped the ball. Oracle should take pity on certified hopefuls and rewrite it.

However, not all is lost. You can avoid getting mired down in Oracle's presentation by printing the exam objectives from the Oracle web site and focus your studies around this outline. Consider buying the Sybex book as an added guide. Pull details from both books using your exam ojective outline. The only exam objective I found to be missing from the Oracle Press book was on NLS. NLS is covered in the Sybex book.

Good luck!

Blows.......2004-01-20

This book blows. I read to book cover to cover and it misses alot of the key concepts covered on the exam. It dosen't go into enough detail in areas that need to be and goes into to much detail into subject such as utilities such as OEM. I don't even remember the book covering NLS topics. I suggest ordering a different prep book for this exam and buying STS software.

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